Complaining Is Exhausting

Complaining Is Exhausting

Complainers fatigue me. I’m not talking about people who truly need someone to talk with. I’m not talking about people genuinely looking for solutions. I’m talking about complainers.

Talking about what’s wrong won’t change what’s wrong.

Wishing something will change won’t make it change.

Whining definitely doesn’t help.

Good old-fashioned effort and strategic learning and practice are necessary if we want to change. Often others can help.

Why do some people love to complain?

Often they’re looking at what’s on the other side of the fence. The grass there is attractive.

Sometimes the grass is greener because it’s fake.

Sometimes the grass is greener because it’s watered enough.

Sometimes the grass is greener because fertilizer was used.

Sometimes the grass is greener because weeds were removed.

Sometimes the grass is greener because while we’re looking at it, we ignored ours.

Where’s your focus? What’s your perspective? What will you do today?