Today, it’s my honor to share Lori Wildenberg’s important blog, Dangerous Games Tweens and Teens May Play, with you. Please take the time to read this. I recommend you save it so you can reference the ideas later. And, please share it with your friends. If you found this important, certainly your friends will.
Perhaps you’ve read my book, Screens and Teens. You know I make strong recommendations in light of how technology is changing our children’s beliefs and behaviors. But, I don’t get into specifics like this. Lori’s efforts to compile this for us are significant. I’m grateful and you will be, too.
Lori and I pray you act on the information here. Your children matter!
Next Wednesday, I’ll share another blog from Lori because I LOVE her newest book, The Messy Life of Parenting: Powerful and Practical Ways to Strengthen Family Connections. You’ll benefit from it, too.
Dangerous Games Tweens And Teens May Play
Halloween can be fun…or it can be the catalyst for truly frightening things. Here are some games for parents of tweens and teens to be aware of and to educate your children in. These games are beyond daring, they can be deadly.
There are 5 new online games that kids are playing. Often these games are “played” in the privacy of the child’s own bedroom while being shared publicly through live video streams or selfies—proof that the participant actually played the game.
The Blue Whale Challenge is a game spread out over 50 days. Each day a new and more dangerous element is introduced by a person called the administrator or curator. This game is actually a form of cyber bullying. The curator threatens to disclose personal information if the “player’ doesn’t want to continue or play. It includes watching horror movies, self harm, waking at odd hours, and concludes in “beaching”–suicide. Click here for further information.
The Pass Out Challenge or the Choking Game (Flatliner, Space Monkey, Suffocation Roulette, or the Scarf Game). This game can be played alone or in a group. In order to get “high” oxygen is cut off. When the restriction is released, a flow of blood floods the brain all at once. A warm fuzzy feeling is the result. The brain is actually dying, killing off thousands of brain cells all at once. Suicide, brain damage, and broken bones are all the result of this addictive game. It is estimated that the choking game claims 250-1,000 lives a year. The stats are so inconclusive because it is tough to determine if it is suicide or game related.
Here are 12 warning signs the choking game is possibly being played:
Talking about the game or its aliases
Questions about the effects of strangulation
Red marks on the neck
Wearing high-necked shirts or scarfs even in warm weather
Frequent, severe headaches
Loss of concentration
Agitation or Disorientation after time spent alone
Ropes, scarves and belts tied to bedroom furniture or doorknobs Unexplained presence of dog leashes, ropes, choke collars, bungee cords.
Pinpoint bleeding spots under the skin particularly on the face and eyelids.
Click here for more information on the choking game.
The Salt and Ice Challenge burns the skin. The teens rub salt on their arm and then rub ice on top of it. The salt reduces the ice temperature to minus 14.8 degrees Fahrenheit causing frostbite burns. The idea is to outdo another player.
The Fire Challenge is literally lighting yourself on fire. The player undresses, pours alcohol on his body and lights himself on fire, films the event, then rushes into the bath tub. This game has been around since 2012 and is still being played. Click here for more information.
The Cutting Challenge is deliberate mutilation of one’s body. The player takes photos of the cutting and posts them on line. This provides a lot of attention for the cutter and the child feels a sense of belonging or identity.
Deadly Games that Originate in your Kitchen or Medicine Cabinet:
- Robotripping: This game is named after the cough suppressant Robitussin. Large quantities are consumed in order to get high or even hallucinate.
- Skittling or Triple C: Over the counter or even prescription drugs are all tossed into a bowl and the participants grab random handfuls of the colorful capsules, washing them all down, at one time, with a glass of water.
- The Cinnamon Challenge: This game can cause choking or breathing problems. Attempting to take a tablespoon of cinnamon all at one time is nearly impossible.
- Huffing or Dusting: Intentionally inhaling household products (like glue or compressed air) in order to get high.
- The Tide Pod Challenge This game was introduced in January of 2018. Kids ingest the tide pods on a dare. It can cause problems like: seizures, illness, increased heart rate and more.
- Surfing: The rider in this case is on top of the car, attempting to “surf” while the car is in motion.
- Trunking: This is played in the car. Kids who have just received their licenses and are not allowed to drive those who are not family members may use the “trunk” option. The non-legal rider is put into the trunk of the car.
- Ghosting: This is played with other vehicles. Each driver turns off the car’s headlights and drives as fast as he can.
- Hide and Seek: A form of ghosting except that the cars go looking for each other on a dark road without lights.
- European Vacation: One driver stays in the right lane, while another drives alongside in the left lane.
Many of the games listed have big consequences. Hopefully, you are more informed after reading this. If you discover your child or his friends are involved in any of these activities be sure to inform the other parents and school personnel. Sadly these games spread like wild fire due to peer pressure and the desire to fit in. Social media has played a role in increasing the odds your child will participate. Talk with your tween, teen, and young person about the dangers. Give them a strategy to opt out of the games.
Be mindful. Pay attention. Keep listening.
And the peace of God which transcends all understanding,
will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Lori Wildenberg, mom of four, is passionate about helping families build connections that last a lifetime. She’s co-founder of 1 Corinthians 13 Parenting ministry, lead mentor mom with the Moms Together Facebook Community, national speaker, and parent coach. The Messy Life of Parenting is Lori’s newest book. For more information go to www.loriwildenberg.com