Helping Kids Navigate the Weight of the World
Talking to kids about world events
In today's world, children are constantly exposed to news and images that can have negative effects on them. As parents and caregivers, it is important for us to consider how we can walk with our kids through these challenging times and help them process the events happening around the world. This transcript from a podcast discusses the challenges of talking to kids about world events and provides some helpful tips and suggestions.
One of the first things mentioned in today’s podcast is the importance of not expressing overly charged negative emotions in front of our kids. Children often look to adults to understand how safe or dangerous the world is, and our reactions can greatly impact their perception. It is important for us to remain calm and composed when discussing world events with our children.
In today’s conversation, Dr. Kathy also suggests limiting children's exposure to news based on their age. Younger children may not have the cognitive ability to fully understand complex events, so it is important to explain things in a language that is understandable for them. It is also crucial to remind children that they are safe, especially for younger ones who may think that these events are happening right outside their front door. Reassuring them that these events are happening in specific locations and not in their immediate surroundings can help alleviate their anxiety.
Engaging with children's questions and leaning into them is another important aspect of discussing world events. Rather than avoiding their questions, it is crucial to address them and provide age-appropriate explanations. If needed, seeking professional help from a pastor or someone who can speak on the topic can be beneficial.
Dr. Kathy also mentions the importance of using visual aids, such as maps or globes, to show children where the events are happening. This can help them understand the geographical distance between their location and the places experiencing these events. It is also important to emphasize that while we care about everyone and are concerned for their well-being, the chances of violence occurring in their immediate surroundings are relatively low.
Talking to kids about world events can be challenging, but it is an essential conversation. By remaining calm, limiting exposure, providing age-appropriate explanations, and using visual aids, we can help children navigate through these difficult times. It is essential to address their questions and seek professional help if needed. Ultimately, by having open and honest conversations, we can guide our children through the weight and anxiety that comes with the brokenness and sin in the world.