“Confusion is never fun,” Dr. Kathy says. “But when we meet confusion with compassion, that’s where identity starts to heal.”

Kids are busier than ever, yet lonelier than ever. They have every toy, every screen, every opportunity, but many don’t feel good about themselves. They often feel anxious, restless, unsure who they are or where they belong.

When your child asks about the violence they see, don’t panic.
Pause.
Pull them close.
Pray together.

Tell them, “Yes, the world is broken, but God is healing it. And He’s invited us to help.”

Many parents quietly wrestle with questions that don’t have easy answers. When should my child get a phone? How much freedom is too much? We want to trust our kids, but we also see how technology changes them, how it shapes moods, sleep, confidence, and attention.

Cultural renewal doesn’t mean canceling everything that’s worldly; it means redeeming what can be redeemed and celebrating what points to truth. It means teaching our kids that joy is deeper than hype and belonging is holier than popularity.

When Dr. Kathy said those words on the Celebrate Kids Podcast, I couldn’t help but pause. It’s a bold statement in a world where technology often feels like the solution to everything, from faster reading apps to “smart” classrooms. But maybe the real “smart” begins when we put the screens away and look up.

Parenting isn’t about perfection — it’s about partnership with the One who still calls children close. When you celebrate kids, you join Jesus in the sacred work of restoring wonder, value, and life to a world that’s forgotten how to see them.

Belonging and identity are inseparable. Who kids spend time with shapes who they become. That’s why teaching traits like hospitality, faithfulness, and kindness matters so much. These aren’t just “nice extras.” They are roots of character that give kids security, confidence, and lasting friendships.

Helping boys find their words isn’t just about emotional health, it’s about shaping identity. When boys know they can express feelings without shame, they learn that being strong includes being honest. They realize they’re not defined by anger but by the God who made them and walks with them.

The way we test kids may need an update, but God’s design for how children learn hasn’t changed. They are curious, capable, and created to grow. When we nurture their smarts, encourage their questions, and connect learning to life, we prepare them for more than a grade; we prepare them for a calling.

Research highlighted in the Celebrate Kids podcast shows that kids observe their parents’ behaviors and absorb them like wet cement takes impressions. The way you communicate with your spouse, resolve disagreements, or show empathy at the dinner table leaves a lasting impression. In other words, the family is the classroom for social skills.

esponsibility is not a burden, it’s the path to confidence, resilience, and true leadership. By rejecting labels and instead affirming identity, we can raise young men and women who don’t shrink back from challenges but step forward to lead, serve, and flourish.

Flourishing isn’t about doing more, it’s about living whole. Our kids don’t need to be flawless; they need to be free. Free to rest, free to grow, free to trust that God’s presence, not their productivity, is what secures their worth.

Almost half of young adults would rather trust a TikTok influencer than a doctor. Why? Because they’ve learned that credible knowledge is personal, quick, and relatable. But it can also be misleading and dangerous.

Authenticity is valuable, but not when it excuses rudeness. Manners and politeness don’t suppress authenticity; they enrich it. They help kids live their true selves in ways that honor God and value others.

Poorly designed homework doesn’t just frustrate kids; it fractures families. Research has shown that homework conflicts used to be among the top sources of tension in American households. It’s not hard to see why.

Your kids don’t need you to be flawless. They need you to be real, consistent, and willing to walk the same road you’re asking them to walk. Modeling values isn’t about control, it’s about connection.

And in the long run, that connection is what shapes behavior, grows discernment, and helps kids develop an identity rooted in truth, not rebellion.