Let's talk about the "A" word: Average. No, it’s not a bad word! In fact, embracing the value of average can feel pretty refreshing in our achievement-obsessed world.

Have you ever noticed how a genuine conversation can completely change your day? In a recent podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch pointed out that our kids often label their entire day as "bad," when really, it's just one small moment overshadowing everything else. By guiding our kids into deeper conversations, we help them see their day (and themselves) more clearly and confidently.

Remember the thrill of riding a bike without training wheels, opening the mailbox to find your high-school diploma, or sliding a new driver’s license out of its envelope? Those moments weren’t just picture-worthy—they quietly rewired your brain, nudging you toward maturity and a bigger view of yourself. Today, your kids crave the same “I did it!” spark, and you get to help light the fuse.