The most important thing children need after divorce is not perfection. They need adults who know them, love them, and continually point them toward the God who never leaves and never forsakes His children.

Across the country, parents are watching courts, hospitals, lawmakers, medical systems, schools, and advocacy groups argue over children, gender identity, mental health, medical care, parental rights, and public policy. Recently, Texas Children’s Hospital agreed to a settlement with the Texas Attorney General and the U.S. Department of Justice that requires the creation of what officials described as the nation’s first “detransition clinic,” along with a $10 million payment related to allegations involving Medicaid billing practices. Supporters viewed the settlement as protection for vulnerable children. Critics viewed it as political pressure against medical care they believe should remain available. Either way, the national conversation remains emotionally charged, deeply personal, and difficult for families to process.

Somewhere along the way, reading started to sound like schoolwork.

It became a score, a level, a benchmark, a worksheet, a test. Parents began hearing about fluency, comprehension, grade level expectations, learning loss, and reading gaps. Those things matter, of course. But if we only talk about reading as an academic skill, we may miss something much more beautiful.